My Husband Told Me He Was Too Busy to Pick Me Up From the Grocery Store with Heavy Bags — Then I Caught Him Helping Our New Young Neighbor Move In

When I caught my husband helping our young neighbor move her boxes after claiming he was "too busy" to pick me up from the grocery store, I didn't yell or make a scene. I smiled, walked inside, and plotted the perfect way to teach him a lesson he'd never forget.

You know that feeling when your gut tells you something's off, but you brush it aside because you don't want to be that wife?

Yeah. That was me.

Until last Saturday.

I wish I could say this story ends with a funny misunderstanding, but no. It ends with my husband, Greg, on the receiving end of a lesson he won't forget.

It started with something so small that I almost didn't question it.

That morning, my car had been making an awful rattling noise whenever I hit the gas. I figured it was better to be safe than stranded on the side of the road, so I left it in the driveway and took an Uber to the grocery store instead.

I did a massive grocery run.

My cart was overflowing with bags, and my back was already aching from reaching into the deep freezer section for those buy-one-get-one frozen pizzas Greg loves so much.

I had heavy bags, a gallon of milk, and of course, I thought it was a genius idea to buy a huge watermelon because it was on sale.

As I loaded the last bag into the cart, I realized how exhausted I was.

The thought of lugging all this to a rideshare pickup spot in the far corner of the parking lot, then from the Uber to our house, made me want to sit down right there on the store floor. So I did what any wife would do. I called my husband.

He picked up after a few rings, sounding distracted.

"Hey babe, can you pick me up from the store? I went a little overboard and these bags are way too heavy," I said, trying to sound sweet rather than desperate.

"Wait... where's your car?" Greg asked.

"I didn't want to risk it. It’s been making that weird rattling noise again, so I left it at home and took an Uber."

"Ugh, Lauren, I can't right now," he said. "I'm swamped. Just take an Uber or something."

His tone was annoyed. Like I was asking him to drive across the country, not five minutes down the road to our local Kroger.

"Seriously? It's just a quick trip," I said, feeling my jaw tighten.

"Babe, I said I can't. I have a million things to do. Just take care of it, okay?"

Click.

I stared at my phone in disbelief. Did he just hang up on me?

Too busy? Too busy for a five-minute drive? Whatever.

I took a deep breath, and started the dreaded process of cramming everything into the trunk by myself.

"Need some help?" asked an elderly gentleman as he walked by.

"No, thank you. I've got it," I said with a forced smile, thinking about how my own husband couldn't be bothered.

By the time I got home, my arms were sore, and my mood was foul. The Uber driver had been nice enough to help me get the bags from the cart to his car, but he wasn't about to carry them into my house.

I didn't blame him. That wasn't his job.

It was my husband's.

But what I saw next?

It sent me straight past foul into full-blown rage.

I saw Greg, my too-busy husband, on the sidewalk.

Carrying suitcases.

Lifting heavy boxes.

Smiling like some chivalrous knight.

And who was he helping?

Our new neighbor, Emma.

Emma, who was young and gorgeous. Emma, who just moved in three doors down. Emma, whose moving truck I'd noticed this morning when leaving for the store.

I sat frozen in the Uber, watching the scene unfold. Greg was laughing at something Emma had said. He lifted another box with ease, not caring that his wife had called him to lift a few grocery bags.

Oh, Greg. I thought. You just messed up.

I didn't storm over. No, that would have been too easy. Instead, I took a deep breath, grabbed my grocery bags from the Uber, and walked into the house like I hadn't seen a thing.

I needed a plan.

And oh, I came up with a good one.

I unloaded the groceries as I improvised the plan in my mind.

The watermelon thumped heavily on the counter. The milk went into the door of the fridge where Greg always complained it shouldn't go. I didn't care. Let him fix it if he wanted.

"Hey! I'm home!" I called out when I heard the front door open thirty minutes later.

Greg appeared in the kitchen doorway, looking a little too pleased with himself.

"Hey," he said casually. "How was the store?"

"Fine," I replied, my voice steady. "Got everything we needed."

"Did you manage with all the bags?" he asked, grabbing a water bottle from the fridge.

I bit my tongue. "Yep. The Uber driver was nice."

I didn't mention the neighbor.

Instead, as he walked past, I casually said, "Oh, by the way, the car’s still making that weird noise. Can you check it out tomorrow?"

"Yeah, maybe later this week," he said while scrolling on his phone. "I'm slammed."

Right, I thought.

I waited exactly one day before putting Step Two of my plan into action.

The next morning, while Greg was still sleeping (he always slept late on Sundays), I called James.

James is our other neighbor. He's around fifty, retired early from his job as a mechanic, and unlike Greg, James never turns down helping his wife.

I've seen him carrying her garden supplies, fixing things around their house, and even holding her purse at the neighborhood block party. A real gentleman.

"Morning, Lauren! What can I do for you?" James asked cheerfully when he answered.

"James, I hate to bother you, but my car's making a strange noise. Greg's busy these days..." I let my voice trail off suggestively.

"Say no more! I'll be right over to take a look."

A few hours later, Greg strolled out of the house, scratching his head. He froze when he saw James in our driveway.

I stood next to James, chatting, laughing, and twirling my hair.

Greg's eyes narrowed as he walked toward us.

"What's going on?" he asked, crossing his arms defensively.

I smiled sweetly. "Oh, James was kind enough to check my car since you were too busy."

James looked up and waved. "Morning, Greg! Just helping Lauren out with this noise she's hearing. Sounds like it might be the timing belt."

Greg clenched his jaw. I could practically see the jealousy brewing, but he couldn't say a thing.

Not when he was just bending over backwards for Emma yesterday.

"I could have looked at it," Greg muttered.

"But you're so busy," I reminded him with an innocent smile. "I didn't want to bother you."

James closed the hood. "All good for now, Lauren, but you should get that timing belt checked at the shop soon. I can give you the name of my guy."

"Thanks so much, James. I really appreciate it," I said.

As James left, Greg stood awkwardly in the driveway, shifting from one bare foot to the other. His expression told me he was annoyed, angry, and guilty… all at the same time.

Perfect.

That evening, I made sure Greg was very aware of how I was suddenly not asking him for anything anymore.

When the living room lightbulb burned out, instead of calling Greg, I dragged the stepladder from the garage and changed it myself.

"I would have done that," Greg said from the couch.

"Oh, it's fine. I know you're busy."

Later, when the trash needed taking out, I handled it without a word.

Instead of saying, "Hey, can you help me with this?" I started casually mentioning other men's generosity.

"Oh, you know, the mailman helped me bring in that heavy package today. Such a strong guy."

"The bagger at the grocery store offered to help with my groceries next time. Isn't that thoughtful?"

"Oh, James texted to see if the car's running better. He's so attentive."

Greg's eye twitched every time.

After dinner, I casually mentioned, "James said if you're too busy, he's happy to mow our lawn this week too."

That was the final straw.

"Alright, Lauren, what the hell is this about?!" Greg yelled.

I leaned back against the sink. "What do you mean?"

"Cut the act. You're acting weird. What's with all the 'James this' and 'mailman that'? And since when do you change lightbulbs?"

"Since you became too busy to help me, I guess." I shrugged.

"Is this about yesterday? About not picking you up from the store?"

I smiled, and then delivered the final blow.

"Oh, I just realized something interesting. You had time to carry Emma's suitcases but couldn't drive five minutes to pick up your WIFE from the grocery store?"

Greg's face drained of color.

"I saw you, Greg." I crossed my arms. "Too busy for me, but not too busy for the new, young neighbor? Interesting."

"Babe, it wasn't like that—" he stammered.

"Oh? What was it like then? Explain it to me." I raised my eyebrows, waiting.

"She just asked for help when I was getting the mail. I couldn't say no."

"But you could say no to me?"

"Lauren, come on. It's not what you think."

"I don't think anything," I said. "I just notice things."

"She's new to the neighborhood. I was being friendly!" Greg protested.

"Would you be equally 'friendly' if Emma was a 60-year-old man?"

Greg had no answer for that. He just sat on the couch and couldn't meet my gaze.

"Oh, don't worry. I get it now. It's fine." I waved my hand dismissively.

I stood up, walked over to him, and whispered, "But next time, Greg? Just know that I'll remember exactly how busy you are."

Then I walked out of the room, leaving him there stewing in his guilt.

I heard him call after me, "Lauren! Come on!"

But I kept walking. Sometimes silence speaks louder than words.

Since that day, let's just say Greg has magically found time to help around the house again.

Last week, I asked him to pick me up from Target, and he was there in under five minutes.

This morning, he noticed the trash was full and took it out without being asked.

Yesterday, he fixed the leaky faucet I'd mentioned once in passing.

Lesson learned.

Sometimes, it takes a little taste of their own medicine for men to realize what they have right in front of them.

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